Are young adults discovering the UMC?
Statistics about the age of United Methodists have not been encouraging. The average United Methodist is 57 years old while the average American is 35. Less than 20 percent of all United Methodists are under 40 while 59 percent of all Americans are under 40. (Based on a 2004 story by United Methodist News Service [UMNS] and U.S. Census data.)
I wonder if this might be changing. Here at Foundry Church we just looked at the ages of our last 100 new members (confessions of faith, confirmations and transfers). We were surprised.
We divided our last 100 new members into age cohorts spanning five-year ranges. The single largest group of new members, 33 percent, were between 30 and 35. The next largest group, 15 percent, were between 25 and 30. A total of 53 percent were between 20 and 35. Our last 100 new members here at Foundry actually had a higher percentage of young adults than the U.S. population does.
This would not have been the case a few years ago. I wonder if this new trend is an isolated case here at Foundry or might it represent something new happening within United Methodism on a broader scale? Because the statistics about United Methodism we use today are based on reports from two, three, or more years ago, it is hard to tell.
We are beginning a process using appreciative inquiry to ask our new members to tell us why they joined Foundry, so I should have more to report about this later. My intuition, however, is that United Methodism may be doing a better job of attracting today's young adults than we did with the baby boomers. Here's why I think this might be the case:
1. The young adults of this generation seem to value authenticity and depth above hipness and polish. We boomers loved rock concerts. Boomer worship kept taking on more and more of the characteristics of a rock concert. Guitar players in praise bands around here have been increasingly open and unabashed in their imitations of Eric Clapton's facial expressions as they play. This sort of thing does not seem to appeal to young adults today at all.
In an article entitled "Talking to Generation X" in First Things Sarah E. Hinlicky wrote:
We know you've tried to get us to church. That's part of the problem. Many of your appeals have been carefully calculated for success, and that turns our collective stomach. Take worship, for instance. You may think that fashionably cutting–edge liturgies relate to us on our level, but the fact is, we can find better entertainment elsewhere. The same goes for anything else you term "contemporary." We see right through it: it's up–to–date for the sake of being up–to–date, and we're not impressed by the results.
Today's young adults seem to be able to smell artifice and pretense a mile away. They can tell when folk are posturing or are in it for alternative motives other than a true desire to serve Christ.
Comparatively speaking, United Methodists tend to be a pretty sincere group. We are ordinary folk not claiming to be super-saints but still committed to Christ. We are more ready than many Christians to admit we don't have all the answers while still having commitments and values we strive to live by. We are not usually judgmental or holier-than-thou. I think this appeals to this generation of young adults.
2. Today's young adults seem to value intellectual depth and consistency. It is to our advantage that our clergy are seminary trained and are often graduates of university seminaries. Our clergy tend to be better read in substantial theological and secular literature. We don't specialize in pop hits from the local Christian bookstore.
This generation is not, by and large, as touchy-feely as we boomers were. Young adults today seem to value intellectual clarity and discipline over emotional and sentimental appeals. This appears to be true across the theological spectrum. Conservative young adult Christians today are much more scholarly and systematic in their thinking than was the case in my generation. For this reason, I suspect some conservative young adults would rather tolerate a thoughtful preacher even if he or she is more liberal than they are. They prefer this to enduring the platitudinous preaching of lazy thinkers who might otherwise be closer to their own theological position. Our requirements of vigorous theological study may be a plus.
3. The young adults of this generation don't seem to mind hanging out with old people. We boomers valued youth and newness. We wanted to do things our own way. We were in a hurry. We didn't have much time or patience to listen to our elders or to accommodate their concerns. We wanted to start our own congregations, or at least our own worship services, so we could do things our own way.
Today's young adults seem to value continuity with their elders. They seem to have time for meaningful relationships with older people. This may be a consequence, in part, of the fragility of family relationships in their parent's generation.
Craig Kennet Miller, a staff member of the General Board of Discipleship (GBOD) who specializes in generational studies, calls the current generation of young adults postmoderns. In his article "From Generation to Generation," he writes about postmoderns:
Born between the assassination of President Kennedy and the election of Ronald Reagan, members of this generation grew up with parents who were dealing with the social revolutions of the sixties and seventies. Approximately forty percent of them have parents who are divorced. "Postmoderns" are hungry for healthy relationships and models of family security. Many are creating their own extended families through networks of friends.
If postmoderns are looking for extended families including people their parent's and grandparent's ages, we've got them in the United Methodist Church. We are a multi-generational denomination, and most of our churches are multi-generational. This was not to our advantage with boomers, but it seems to be a plus now.
4. This generation of young adults appears not to be impressed by superstars. They are not into personality cults, especially not in church. This is to United Methodism's advantage, because we don't have many superstars, and most of those who might qualify in one way or another don't act like superstars.
Dan R. Dick, another GBOD staffer, has written an excellent article about a long conversation he had with a group of young adults in an airport. He quotes one of the young adults:
I grew up in three different churches. I always wondered, "Who are we worshiping anyway?" Everywhere it was the same. It never felt like we stayed focused on God. Were we worshiping church? Maybe the dollar? Maybe our own egos — like, hey if you’re Christian and God loves you, then you’re okay? Maybe we were worshiping the organist or the pastor? But worshiping God? I don’t think so!
Given the way that Christian preachers and musicians have so often become part of something that feels more like an entertainment industry than church, ordinary United Methodist congregations may be a breath of fresh air to a generation that is seeking to worship God rather than the preacher or the band.
I am writing in generalities, I know. This is an intuition, that's all. But I think it is important that we think about this and research it. If we are beginning to attract more young adults these days, we need to be careful not to change so as to imitate the churches that have been more successful with past generations. We have a way of doing this -- trying to become like something that was successful 10 years ago. What if the Spirit has prepared us for just such a time as this?























